good bye aspergers, hello autism

Edward was diagnosed with a type of Autism called Asperger’s syndrome when he was 8 years old, in 2009.

Once during a school  meeting with the high school special needs coordinator, who we were meeting for the very first time, Nick managed to mention that Aspergers sounded like Ass burgers; needless to say the meeting took a very weird detour until we managed to get back onto the topic of how the school would be able to support Edward transition from primary to high school!

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*Photos from flickr creative commons, thanks to Orin Zebest  and metaphorical platypus

For many years professionals assessing and diagnosing any form of mental health condition have used the Diagnostical and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM), (quite a tome as you can imagine). The latest edition, DSM-5, was published in 2013 and amongst the changes made was the removal of  Asperger’s Syndrome as a distinct diagnostic label. My understanding is that the reason for this change was that children who were diagnosed with Autism very early in life but who later developed spoken language and children who had age appropriate language development in their early years but who were later diagnosed with Asperger’s syndrome, basically ended up with a very similar set of characteristics, thereby making the use of two different labels unnecessary.

Since 2013 many teams of professionals who assess and diagnose autism no longer give people the diagnosis of Asperger’s syndrome, but rather the more generic diagnosis of Autism.

Knowing that someone has Autism tells you very little about that person. A person with autism may have severe learning difficulties or they may be a professor at a leading university. They may be non verbal or incredibly eloquent and articulate. They may prefer to spend time on their own or they may enjoy socialising. They may be very fussy about what they eat or they may be a fanatical foodie. It really is true that “if you have met one autistic person you have met one autistic person”.

So what does the label ‘autism’ tell us? If someone has autism it means that they have a life long condition which will affect how they communicate with and relate to other people, and how they experience the world around them. There may also be a range of strengths associated with autism such as having great attention for detail, visual thinking and the ability to gain detailed knowledge in areas of special interest. There is no “cure” for autism and indeed many people who have autism would understandably be offended by the notion that their autism should be cured. Autism, for some people can be a positive and core part of their very identity. In light of the fact that autism can look so very different from one individual to the next the concept of talking about Autistic Spectrum Disorders or Autistic Spectrum Conditions has become the norm.

When I told Edward that Asperger’s syndrome had been dropped from the new edition of the DSM-5 he felt quite sorry about it. The very name, Asperger’s syndrome had brought a tremendous amount of understanding for all of us. He liked his label – it made things make sense.

However at the end of the day we never really could decide how to pronounce it. Some people said “As purge ers” and some people said “Ass –pergers“. Other people said Aspie which we all quite liked. All these different names and pronunciations were pretty confusing though.

In the end, my son, ever the pragmatist, decided that he now had “Autism”. It was the shortest version of all his possible labels and was also still in current use by all professionals.

The first time that I ever overheard Edward use the term Autism to describe himself in conversation was simply wonderful. I kind of knew then, that he was going to be absolutely fine.

We were camping with a few families who we have been friends with for what feels like forever (in a good way). Edward was sitting with about 5 of the other teenagers and he very naturally said, “oh guys, you know that I have autism, so if I say something odd or you think I am being rude, just let me know because otherwise I won’t have a clue”. They all carried on chatting together; I noticed that not one of them had batted an eyelid at what Edward had said, he was completely accepted, Autism and all.

 

 

 

 

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3 thoughts on “good bye aspergers, hello autism

  1. Edward sounds like one amazing boy! I really do hope Hayden embraces his autism just as well as Edward as he grows older. Thank you for linking up to #spectrumsunday lovely, I really do hope you come by again this week.

  2. Thanks Clare – wishing you and Hayden all the best!

  3. hello, i have aspergers .i do a blog

    http;//mark-kent.webs.com

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